Resource Specialists Share Stories:

Northern New Mexico: Families that I visit often live below the poverty level, are dealing with health issues, and are used to going without things they need or want to make life better for their son or daughter. They are so used to the medical model; they initially will use the allocation to purchase therapy services. Gradually, they learn to think about how the same outcome could be achieved in the community, and use the funds to enroll their child in an activity such as dance lessons.

Taos: The family of a little girl with a medically fragile condition, who also has extremely high sensory and safety needs, was able to purchase a number of items that will provide new sensory experiences for her. To support her passion for swinging while turning in circles AND holding loud, musical vibrating toys, they obtained adaptable swings and hammocks of different styles, plus a wall mirror with a pull-up bar. These items have also been a support to the family, since it is saving them time and energy as they respond to her needs for meaningful stimulation, while keeping her safe.

Farmington: One family I supported initially used funds to purchase diapers for their teenager who would always have this need. Eventually, they discovered there was more to life than diapers!

A parent from Albuquerque who has benefited from New Mexicos Self-Directed Family Support Program. It is not just $2,600. The real support is acknowledging who we are. Through this program, I have been braver about going out in the community with my son. I have learned to plan and to make choices. This year I used my allocation for a swing set. It assists my son in his motor skills and is a way to support his social inclusion. Now, other children in the neighborhood come over to play with him.

Central: Twenty-year old Lucia is being raised by her elderly grandmother. During the planning process, her grandmother shared that Lucia, who is now out of school, does not have very many friends and is very lonely. Part of her Self-directed Family Support budget was used to purchase a dog, which Lucia has named Missy. The grandmother called the Family Resource Specialist to report how much joy and companionship the puppy has brought to this young woman's life. The dog is her new best friend and has helped her to regain her smile.

Socorro: When Family Resource Specialist Vicki helped 23 year old Christopher complete his individual plan and budget, his mother Linda described her son as being wired for music. He writes music, sings and just enjoys listening to music. To assist him in pursuing his hobby, Christopher and Linda decided to use the Self-directed Family Support stipend to purchase a computer with a CD burner, a stereo and an MP3 player. This has helped Christopher feel even more connected with people in his community. They feel very fortunate for the opportunity to have his life enriched.